Common Mistakes People Make When Getting Back Together With Their Ex

Common Mistakes People Make When Getting Back Together With Their Ex

Breaking up and getting back together is a pretty common event with most couples that I know, but no matter how many times people try to get back together with their exs, most of them still continue to commit the same mistakes over and over again. Committing these mistakes is usually the reason as to why some couples do not end up getting back together and ultimately severe themselves from one another.

You can actually reduce the risks of ruining your chances of getting back together with your ex by avoiding the common mistakes that most people make. Here are a couple of things that you should try to avoid.

Dont Beg Your Ex

Begging your ex to get back together with you will only make stern his decision to not get back together with you and finally get over your break up and move on as this will make you appear very needy. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with a very needy person, as this can lead to a lot of problems later on. You will lose face when you beg someone to get back together with you. You not only lose your ex, but you also lose some respect that people have for you by begging, so dont.

Dont Let Your Pride Take Over

Getting back together with your ex can prove difficult of neither of you is willing to give in and swallow your pride. In order for things to work between you and your ex, one of you needs to take the higher road, and if need be, avoid letting your ego get the best of you. No one can deal with a person who refuses to compromise, and insists on doing things and going about things his own way. Once one of you eats some humble pie, the other person usually follows.

Jealousy Equals More Drama

One of the more common, but flawed, Hollywood remedy for a break up is to make the other person (your ex) jealous by making your ex see that you are happy with another person. Contrary to popular belief, doing this will not make your ex realize that you both should get back together, instead, this will only make your ex feel animosity towards you, or towards what you are doing. This act is intentional, and chances are, your ex will figure out that you are doing this on purpose to make him jealous. Once this happens, you can kiss your chances of getting back together good bye.

Avoid Confrontation

Fighting with your ex is not the best way to get him (or her) to get back together with you. A break up can be painful to both parties, just make sure that when you both decide to talk about trying to work things out and get back together, avoid becoming confrontational, especially if you are bent on getting an apology from your ex for the possible mistakes that he might have done leading to the break up. Keep in mind that you are there to get back together, not play the blaming game. Learn to talk about your problems in a non-hostile way to avoid any miscommunication and misunderstanding.

These are just some of the common mistakes that you can avoid in order to ensure that you dont decrease your chances of getting back together with your ex.
  • we hadn’t seen each other in a month 因为似乎我们一个月都没有见面了 when you... I’m telling you, 听清楚! We are never ever ever getting back together. 我们再也...

  • we hadn’t seen each other in a month. 因为似乎我们一个月都没有见面了。 when yo... back together. 我们再也不能一起回到过去了。 We are never ever ever getting back tog...

  • are never getting back together (full lyrics!) 我们从来没有一起回家 I remember when w... Hide away and find your peace of mind 躲藏起来,找到你内心的平静 With some indie...

  • Getting Back Together [00:04.11] [00:06.42]I remember when we broke up the first tim... right [01:13.06]And you would hide away and find your peace of mind [01:15.28]with s...

  • "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" I remember when we broke... that I'm right And you would hide away and find your peace of mind With some...

  • 我受够了 We haven't seen each other in a month 一月不曾见面 When you, ... And my friends talk to me But we are never ever ever ever getting back together W...

  • 所属专辑:《Red》 发行时间 2012年8月13日 中英对照歌词: I remember when we brok... telling you 我要告诉你 We are never ever ever 我们永远不可能 getting back together 破...

  • we hadn’t seen each other in a month 因为似乎我们一个月都没有见面了 when you... I’m telling you, 听清楚! We are never ever ever getting back together. 我们再也...

    we hadn’t seen each other in a month. 因为似乎我们一个月都没有见面了。 when yo... back together. 我们再也不能一起回到过去了。 We are never ever ever getting back tog...

    are never getting back together (full lyrics!) 我们从来没有一起回家 I remember when w... Hide away and find your peace of mind 躲藏起来,找到你内心的平静 With some indie...

    Getting Back Together [00:04.11] [00:06.42]I remember when we broke up the first tim... right [01:13.06]And you would hide away and find your peace of mind [01:15.28]with s...

    "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" I remember when we broke... that I'm right And you would hide away and find your peace of mind With some...

    我受够了 We haven't seen each other in a month 一月不曾见面 When you, ... And my friends talk to me But we are never ever ever ever getting back together W...

    所属专辑:《Red》 发行时间 2012年8月13日 中英对照歌词: I remember when we brok... telling you 我要告诉你 We are never ever ever 我们永远不可能 getting back together 破...
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